my general view on fair use content
It's no secret that I disagree with Wikipedia NFCC policy & guidelines (I think we should make full use of everything permitted as fair use under US copyright. As we exist in an environment where information is unduly hidden by excessively restrictive copyright, the diffusion of information is best promoted by following the law, but using all legal rights available to us. Free encyclopedia should mean one free to present as much relevant material as possible for the reader without financial restrictions. Collecting material free for subsequent use is a secondary purpose.
how I deal with it
Though i will certainly enforce the current rules as I'm supposed to when necessary, I do not seek out occasions to do so, and It would be better to ask those for advice who agree with them. They are more likely to give you the correct information.