|Lady Ursula d'Abo|
Lady Ursula at Belvoir Castle in 1937, dressed in Norman Hartnell for the coronation
|Born||Ursula Isabel Manners|
8 November 1916
|Died||2 November 2017 (aged 100)|
West Wratting Park
West Wratting, Cambridgeshire
|Spouse(s)||Anthony Marreco (1943–1948, divorced)|
Erland d'Abo (1951–1970, his death)
John Henry Erland d'Abo
Louisa Jane d'Abo
Richard Winston Mark d'Abo
|Father||John Manners, 9th Duke of Rutland|
Lady Ursula Isabel d'Abo (née Manners, formerly Marreco; 8 November 1916 – 2 November 2017) was an English socialite who served as a maid of honour to Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother at the Coronation of King George VI and Queen Elizabeth in 1937. During World War II she worked as a nurse with the Voluntary Aid Detachment before being appointed to a managerial position over 2,000 women employees at the British Manufacture and Research Company's munitions factory in Grantham. In her later life she received attention for her brief relationship with Man Singh II and her long-term affair with J. Paul Getty. In 2014 she published her memoir titled The Girl with the Widow's Peak: The Memoirs.
Lady Ursula Isabel Manners was born in London on 8 November 1916 to John Manners, Marquess of Granby and Kathleen Tennant. She was the eldest of five children. Her father was the second son and eventual heir of Henry Manners, 8th Duke of Rutland and Violet Lindsay. After the death of her grandfather, her father became the 9th Duke of Rutland. Her mother was the niece of British Prime Minister H. H. Asquith and a granddaughter of Sir Charles Tennant, 1st Baronet. She was a paternal niece of Lady Diana Cooper and the Lady Victoria Manners.
Lady Ursula first lived at Wood House, a small farmhouse in Derbyshire, and at a residence in London. She spent a lot of time at the family estates, Belvoir Castle and Haddon Hall, where she moved once her father inherited the dukedom in 1925. When she was eight years old she helped her father with the restoration at Haddon Hall, where she discovered medieval frescoes of Saint Christopher in the chapel which had been whitewashed over during the English Reformation.
She trained in ballet, taking lessons from Tamara Karsavina, a former principal dancer with the Imperial Russian Ballet. She was educated by governesses in mathematics, French, Latin, swimming, piano, sewing, cooking, and riding. As a teenager Lady Ursula and her sister, Isabel, were sent to France with their governess. After living in Paris, Lady Ursula was sent to finishing school at the Villa Malatesta in Florence, Italy where she studied Italian, art, and architecture.
In 1934, at the age of seventeen, she and her sister had a coming out ball hosted in their honour at Belvoir. In 1936 she was presented at court to George V and Mary of Teck. As the daughter of a duke, she took part in local charitable organisations and events alongside her parents.
Coronation and official duties
In 1937 Lady Ursula served as one of six maids of honour to Queen Elizabeth during her and King George VI's coronation at Westminster Abbey. Lady Ursula, along with the other maids of honour, was dressed in a white gown designed by Norman Hartnell, the royal dressmaker to the Queen. She was photographed alongside the royal family on the balcony of Buckingham Palace after the ceremony and received international media attention when observers noted her attractiveness and distinctive widow's peak. Later that year she was photographed by Cecil Beaton.
World War II
Once the United Kingdom entered into World War II, the Manners family arranged to lend Belvoir Castle and Haddon Hall as repositories for historic national documents from the Public Record Office. Lady Ursula's father died from septicaemia on 22 April 1940. Her brother Charles then became the 10th Duke of Rutland.
During World War II, Manners joined the Voluntary Aid Detachment in London, working alongside the Red Cross. Her first post was at the Ashton Hotel in Paddington where she cleaned railway carriages. In 1940 Lady Ursula was working as a nurse at Battersea General Hospital and had to evacuate patients after a bombing. She was later posted to St George's Hospital at Hyde Park Corner where she was responsible for giving atropine injections to the wounded before they would undergo operations. While working at St George's Hospital she resided at her mother's residence in Audley Square, Mayfair until it was heavily damaged in an air raid. Lady Ursula survived unscathed and was brought to the Dorchester Hotel by a policeman to stay with her aunt and uncle, Duff Cooper, 1st Viscount Norwich and Lady Diana Cooper.
Faced with being transferred to a country hospital after more bombings in London, she chose to resign and return home to Belvoir. Peregrine Cust, 6th Baron Brownlow arranged for her to meet Denis Kendall, the managing director of the British Manufacture and Research Company's munitions factory, who offered her a job. She accepted a position at the factory in Grantham, where she oversaw 2,000 women employed to make bullets for the war effort.
On 25 July 1943, Manners married barrister Anthony Marreco in the chapel at Belvoir Castle. Her husband left to serve in the British Armed Forces in Asia and lost communication with her until 1946. During this time she entered a brief relationship with the Maharaja of Jaipur, Man Singh II, whom she met through her friend Jawaharlal Nehru. Lady Ursula and Marreco divorced in 1948.
Upon returning to England she was courted by financier Erland d'Abo and by John Scott, Earl of Dalkeith. During this time she was in a serious car accident with d'Abo and had to undergo facial reconstructive surgery under Arthur Rainsford Mowlem. On 22 November 1951 she married Erland d'Abo at the St. Andrew's Church in West Wratting, Cambridgeshire. They moved into West Wratting Park, a Georgian manor home, and also purchased a mansion in Kensington Square. They had three children. Their first child, John Henry Erland d'Abo, was born on 7 October 1953. Their second child, Louisa Jane d'Abo, was born on 8 January 1955. Their third child, Richard Winston Mark d'Abo, was born on 3 July 1956. Her husband died from a heart attack in 1970. By that time, Lady Ursula had been in a long-time affair with oil tycoon J. Paul Getty, whom she lived with for five years at Sutton Place. She was aware that Getty had affairs with other European aristocratic women at this time. When Getty died in 1976, he left her an inheritance, reportedly £85,000 and $165,250 in stock.
Lady Ursula d'Abo died at her home, West Wratting Park, in the presence of her family on 2 November 2017, six days before her 101st birthday.
Her autobiographical memoir, titled The Girl with the Widow's Peak: The Memoirs, was published in 2014.
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